Root Cause Solutions
Knowing the path and walking the path. Why does advice fail? Why do books and motivational talks not create lasting results? Why can we not just be told what to do by experts? Why do so few of us achieve great feats alone? Because we need Coaches!
Would you expect someone to climb the tallest mountain without a guide or training? Learning the basics of mountaineering would be essential, even to reach Base Camp. Without proper preparation and a qualified guide, what are the chances of reaching the summit safely? One cannot be carried—without learning the skills or knowing the path, success is unlikely. Find a guide who will safely lead you to your summit, equipping you with the skills needed to get there and back.
Step TWO
Now that we have a foundation to build on (Step ONE/Mental Fitness), a common language to speak, and have identified our Saboteurs, it’s time to move forward! Often, we address symptoms directly, hoping they will disappear—and sometimes they do. More frequently, however, relief is only temporary, and soon enough, “normal” behavior returns, along with the original problem. This repeated cycle can be seen in the “diet cycle,” which looks like this:
Motivation to change
A large, unsustainable, or unrealistic change is undertaken
Some degree of results are achieved (or not)
The change becomes too burdensome to continue and is abandoned
Results are lost, leading to a return to the original or worse condition
Feelings of shame for having “failed”
Motivation to change returns due to dissatisfaction—thus, the cycle repeats